It’s another sorry tale about class in America, I’m sure you’re right, but you have to imagine how proud we were. Your grandfather painted a banner that hung from Wascher’s Pub to Dianis’s Grocery across the street: Reigh Count, Kentucky Derby Winner, 1928. And washtubs filled with French champagne. I was far too young to be up at the stables myself, of course, it took me years to understand they must have meant in bottles in the washtubs, with ice. His racing colors were yellow and black, like the yellow cabs, which is how Mr. Hertz first made the money that built the barns that bred the horses, bred at last this perfect horse, our hundred and thirty seconds of flat out earth- borne bliss. They bought the Arlington Racetrack then and Jens got a job that for once in his life allowed him to pay the mortgage and the doctors too, but he talked the loose way even good men talk sometimes and old man Hertz was obliged to let him go. It was August when the cab strike in Chicago got so ugly. Somebody must have tipped them off, since we learned later on that the Count and the trainer who slept in his stall had been moved to another barn. I’ll never forget the morning after: ash in the air all the way to town and the smell of those poor animals, who’d never harmed a soul. There’s a nursery rhyme that goes like that, isn’t there? Never did us any harm. I think it’s about tormenting a cat.
From Prodigal: New and Selected Poems, 1976 to 2014 (Mariner Books, 2015). Copyright © 2015 by Linda Gregerson. Used with permission of the author.
And a youth said, Speak to us of Friendship.
And he answered, saying:
Your friend is your needs answered.
He is your field which you sow with love and reap with thanksgiving.
And he is your board and your fireside.
For you come to him with your hunger, and you seek him for peace.
When your friend speaks his mind you fear not the “nay” in your own mind, nor do you withhold the “ay.”
And when he is silent your heart ceases not to listen to his heart;
For without words, in friendship, all thoughts, all desires, all expectations are born and shared, with joy that is unacclaimed.
When you part from your friend, you grieve not;
For that which you love most in him may be clearer in his absence, as the mountain to the climber is clearer from the plain.
And let there be no purpose in friendship save the deepening of the spirit.
For love that seeks aught but the disclosure of its own mystery is not love but a net cast forth: and only the unprofitable is caught.
And let your best be for your friend.
If he must know the ebb of your tide, let him know its flood also.
For what is your friend that you should seek him with hours to kill?
Seek him always with hours to live.
For it is his to fill your need but not your emptiness.
And in the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures.
For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed.
From The Prophet (Knopf, 1923). This poem is in the public domain.
(To F. S.)
I loved my friend.
He went away from me.
There’s nothing more to say.
The poem ends,
Soft as it began,—
I loved my friend.
From The Weary Blues (Alfred A. Knopf, 1926) by Langston Hughes. This poem is in the public domain.