the last Sunday
i remember you
in hat
pastels
soft gray hair posing beneath
your HATNESS
(only black women achieve the HAT-NESS)
that I envy you for.
You
Grandmother
African Methodist Episcopal
Missionary
Widowed minister’s wife
Mother of four
grandmother of five
great grandmother of fourteen
HAT-NESS is inherited
it’s in the blood
because I got the Hatness
too—
i can put on your
old silk and taffeta and
linen dresses, petticoats and
suits— and top this little
head w/a panama
and hatness becomes herstorical
enriched w/Her/Your/Our style.
From Breath of the Song: New and Selected Poems (Carolina Wren Press, 2005). Copyright © 2005 by Jaki Shelton Green. Used with the permission of the author.