It’s Not Really about Them, It’s about Us
Braiding my hair, working with, and not against,
the silver waves, breaking through the crests
of my crushed curls—
I consider my life, my regrets and my absences,
my not-love life at press time, the small bundle
of garbage, tied-up by the door,
and I think, looking into the mirror, As soon
as I don’t need them, that’s when they’ll come
running; it’s a law, it’s diffusion
and I think, I could write a theory of whiteness,
but I won’t, because that’s exactly what they want.
Then I follow that with,
It’s not really about them, it’s about us,
and I consider broadcasting that thought
to the whole wide world—
but instead, I sit down to piecemeal these
lines in the quiet of my quiet-dark,
for you, listening now.
Copyright © 2022 by Safia Jama. Originally published in Poem-a-Day on January 21, 2022, by the Academy of American Poets.
About this Poem
“At first, I was going to post one line—“It’s not really about them, it’s about us”—on Twitter. But, instead, I chose to write a poem in order to understand what I was feeling.”
Date Published: 2022-01-21
Source URL: https://poets.org/poem/its-not-really-about-them-its-about-us